Nollywood actress, Lisa Omorodion, has taken to her social media page to advise ladies in love to desist from sharing details about their friends with their partners.
She noted that a boyfriend is not a husband and the information shared about their friends might seem like innocent pillow talk or gist but that it does more harm than good.
The actress also revealed that people trust their friends with information about them because of the relationship they share and not with their partners because they are not friends.
According to the actress, once the relationship ends, feelings may die but the too much information that was shared remains with the man.
She wrote: “LADIES LETS TALK!
“Your boyfriend is not my BEST FRIEND, you are my best friend. If I want him to know my secrets I will call a meeting with the two of you present and share it all.
“Ladies NEVER ever tell your secrets to a woman in love. This woman, in particular, has certain characteristics – overly trusting, her legs jelly (the aftermath of being swept off her feet a time too many), her stomach ridden with butterflies. Now, pillow talk is one of her favourite pastimes with her new Boo; Information dished out here might even not be on a need to know basis. To some it’s for the simple reason of seeking validation to improve intimacy, for others it’s just GIST! Whatever the reason, secrets are spilled; mainly of the other person (you) blurring herself out of the picture while at it. After all, said & said; her boyfriend can virtually see through you and in most cases judge you without you knowing.
“Like a tornado, the relationship comes crashing! But guess the only thing that withstood this crash?? Your guess is as good as mine- your Secret/Gist! The ex-boyfriend, the other one before this one and the one from 4 years ago have all left the building with TOO MUCH information.
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A word for the unwise… A boyfriend is NOT your husband …Stop betraying your friends!!”
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